Jennifer Lopez is getting real about her whirlwind second relationship with Ben Affleck—one that ultimately ended in divorce—and in a new interview, she’s sharing how working on her latest film, Kiss of the Spider Woman, helped her see their marriage was unraveling.
As TMZ reported back in August 2024, Lopez filed for divorce from Affleck—and now, just over a year into being single again, she’s reflecting on the end of their marriage. In fact, she’s going so far as to call the split “the best thing that ever happened to me.”
Decades after their first romance fizzled, Lopez and Affleck reconnected, rekindled their love, and even made it down the aisle—winning over the nation all over again. But sadly, their second shot at love didn’t stick, and the pair called it quits last year.

Now, in a new chat with CBS News Sunday Mornings—where she’s promoting her upcoming film Kiss of the Spider Woman (Affleck serves as an executive producer)—Lopez is breaking down why she now sees their divorce as a positive turning point in her life.
“Because it shifted something in me,” she said—then clarified, “Wait, it didn’t change me. But it helped me grow in the exact way I needed to.”
Though their marriage ended in 2024, filming for Kiss of the Spider Woman was already underway when Lopez and Affleck were still together—and already grappling with marital issues. That overlap created a striking juxtaposition for Lopez: one that was both incredibly tough and surprisingly eye-opening.
At the same time, Lopez is quick to credit Affleck for his role in a project that’s since become deeply meaningful to her. “This movie never would’ve gotten made without him and his production company, Artists Equity,” she said. She recalled telling her then-husband, “This is the role I was born to play—I need to do this.” And sure enough, he and his team agreed to fund her dream. “I’ll always give him props for that,” she added.
On the personal front, though, things were far from smooth. “It was a really tough time,” Lopez admitted—and she didn’t disagree when the interviewer described making the film as a kind of “refuge” for her.
“It was impossible not to dwell on everything going on,” she said. “In a way, it was the best of times and the worst of times. Every second I was on set, every second I was in this role—I was so happy. But then I’d go home, and things were… not good,” she explained. “I kept thinking, ‘How do I make sense of this?’”
“But you push through it,” she went on. And now, looking back on that chaotic period, she says it ended up being a positive force in her life—one that helped her grow as a person and “become more self-aware.” “I’m a different person than I was last year,” she emphasized.
As for where she stands now? Lopez says she’s happier than ever. “This summer was probably the best summer I’ve ever had—I had so much fun,” she shared. “I’m able to enjoy things more now, and because I’m so much more grateful for them, that joy just multiplies.”
“I realized that joy is in living in the moment—really embracing life and everything it throws your way,” she explained. “That means embracing the lessons, the triumphs… all of it. The hard times? Those are the lessons. You have to wrap your head around that,” she added. “And once you do, everything feels a little lighter—and you can truly, truly fly.”
“I don’t think I would’ve understood any of that if this divorce hadn’t happened,” Lopez said, reflecting on the split. “And that’s the truth.”





















