The “Real Housewives of Atlanta” (RHOA) star dropped a surprise on fans recently, opening up about her new dating life—and explaining how the two people she’s “seeing now” differ from the “narcissists” she’s dated in the past.

Following her split from Simon Guobadia, Porsha Williams is embracing a fresh chapter—one that includes romantic connections with both a man and a woman. She shared the news over the weekend at CultureCon, in footage posted by Culture Unfiltered on Instagram. During her chat, Williams got real about her post-divorce love life, and her comments seemed to take a subtle dig at Guobadia as she called out some past partners for being “narcissists.”

“So right now, there are two people I’m seeing—I’ve narrowed it down to just them: one guy, one woman, and both are really kind,” Williams said. Her reveal sparked a loud reaction from the crowd, with one audience member calling out, “You’re fearless!”

Williams went on to explain that she’s prioritizing “normalcy” in these new connections. “I just wanted to make sure these were regular, genuine people,” she said. “The other day, I was talking to my therapist about this—turns out, I’m struggling to let my guard down because these two aren’t narcissists. And here’s the thing about narcissists: they love-bomb you, they go out of their way to seem flawless, and they mirror your energy to win you over.”

She emphasized that her current love interests are nothing like that. “They challenge me, they ask me real, honest questions, they don’t let me get away with anything, and they aren’t just doing whatever it takes to lock down a relationship,” Williams added. “That’s why I still don’t feel safe enough to open up fully yet. But I’m starting to realize: if I want something different than what I had before, I have to be different too. I need to soften up a little, stop expecting all these over-the-top gestures, and get used to someone checking me when I need it.”

Williams’ comments come after a messy split from Guobadia. The pair dated for roughly a month before getting engaged in May 2021, then tied the knot in November 2022. But by February 2024, Williams filed for divorce—right around the time she was gearing up to film her return to RHOA, after stepping away from the series back in 2021.